About Platonic

This is where we explore issues relating to platonic relationships. Love isn’t solely the domain of the romantic relationship, but is also shared between people who don’t have sex with each other.

Why My Friendship Bracelet Means So Much To Me

by Carlo Alcos July 26, 2011
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As she tied the four-coloured bracelet on my left wrist, I thought about her thinking of me. Her thinking of me and sitting down with these pieces of string, meticulously twining them together to produce this token of friendship.

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Can You Be Friends With Your Ex Right Away?

by Mhaya July 5, 2011
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Most people think you can’t be friends with your ex right after the relationship ends. Mhaya challenges this assumption, even if it won’t end up the way she hopes.

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Confession to a Friend: I Have Feelings For You

by Sammy R. May 19, 2011
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So. I did it. Again.

The other night I confessed some feelings I’d developed for a friend of mine. A fairly new friend, but someone with whom I’ve become quite close. And like the last time this happened to me, it was totally unplanned, unexpected. I wasn’t, and am not, looking for a relationship. I know she’s not either. We’re in similar situations, coming off the end of a long-term serious relationship (and also a short term “rebound”).

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It’s Free Music Time, Baby

by Christine Garvin April 19, 2011
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In the vein of getting even more of those types of readers to stop on by our little operation, become a part of the conversation, and kick around some new notions from underneath those dusty-old ideals, Carlo and I have been hatching a little plan over the last few weeks. We wanted to offer something, well, just plain GOOD to get on board. Also, juicy, poignant, uplifting, sad. FREE.

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How to Escape From the Friend Zone!

by Carlo Alcos April 7, 2011
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Are YOU sick and tired of being a FRIEND? Do YOU sometimes wish she would finally realize that you’re THE ONE? Have YOU entered the dreaded FRIEND ZONE and see NO WAY OUT?

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The Friend Zone (or, How “Jerks” Are Made)

by Carlo Alcos April 1, 2011
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Many a guy has been lamented in his life for entering the “friend zone” with a girl. Like it’s this evil, sex-less place where all you can expect is a hug, some good company, and a wank when you get home.

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How Do You Help Someone Who Doesn’t Want Help?

by Sammy R. March 10, 2011
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I know the answer to this. You can’t. But it doesn’t mean I don’t think about it any less.

Steve, a friend of mine for many many years, has what I would consider a drinking problem. We grew up drinking together and he used to be a lot of fun. Then he started getting aggressive. He started being an asshole. He got kicked out of bars regularly and embarrassed me (and other friends) by the way he treated complete strangers, or even friends of mine that he didn’t know. When I moved away for a few years I didn’t have much contact with him, although the strong bond we’ve built over the years didn’t weaken at all. As circumstances would have it, I am now living with him in a different city than where we grew up.

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Men and Women Can’t be Friends. Or So He Says

by Christine Garvin November 22, 2010
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Ah, the age-old old old question – can (straight) women and men ever really be just friends?

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