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This is where we share our (hopefully) useful experience and anything that we find interesting in our research.

iPhone Stalker App (or, Do You Know Your Facebook Privacy Settings?)

by Carlo Alcos March 31, 2012
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WARNING: This may make you sick to your stomach.

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How Jealousy Can Work For Us

by Carlo Alcos November 2, 2011
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Jealousy has been on my mind as of late. More specifically, the feeling of being “threatened” by other males and of my initial instinct to look at other guys in a suspicious light.

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Book Review: How the World Makes Love

by Christine Garvin September 9, 2011
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Think you know what love is? With humor, Franz Wisner shows how it’s done around the world.

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Notes On An Almost 50-Year Marriage

by Christine Garvin July 12, 2011
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“What you think is your intuition is your ego, sabotaging you. It will try many times to do that, to tell you what is right is wrong, and what is wrong is right.”

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Using Magic to Find Love

by Christine Garvin July 8, 2011
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Magic is not about an outside source doing something to change your situation; it’s about knowing you’re worth whatever you are asking for, and putting energy toward bringing that thing into your life (or making it appear if it’s already there, just hidden).

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Emotional Involvement is Not Solely a Function of Time

by Carlo Alcos June 2, 2011
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During a break up, there are many factors to consider when dealing with the loss. The amount of time you spent together is only one of them.

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I Guess Women Still Don’t Know How To Orgasm

by Christine Garvin May 27, 2011
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Something that seems to be swirling around the blogosphere (or at least the places I stumble upon) lately is the idea of how hard it is for women to have an orgasm during sex – and that for many, it never happens.

Seriously, is this news?

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Book Review: Women’s Anatomy of Arousal

by Christine Garvin May 3, 2011
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The deeper I got into the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists 2010 Book of the Year, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure, the more I felt a bit like it’s a super-secret-sensuality manual that I want to covertly pass around to all my sisters. Truth is, every woman (and man) should read this book, along with it becoming required reading upon turning 18 and/or graduating high school. Seriously.

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10 Foods To Make Your Sex Life Even Better

by Sylvie Nalezny April 21, 2011
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I was sitting at the bar with a girlfriend and mentioned how yummy a platter of Hog Island oysters would taste with my martini. “Ugh,” she groaned. “I can’t stand oysters. None for me!” Ten minutes later, a rather handsome gentleman sitting further down the bar pushed a plate of oysters toward me. “I’m Jim,” he said, capitalizing on my craving. I was hooked.

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Why in the World Would You Think You’re Not Sexy?

by Christine Garvin April 5, 2011
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Not long ago, I noticed a comment on FB made by a friend beneath a picture of her and the guy she just started dating. “I’m definitely dating WAY above myself!” she exclaimed. I, on the other hand, smiled sadly. I was certainly happy that she has found a guy she thinks so highly of, and I felt pained – for her, for me, for all the other women (and men) out there – that feel they aren’t worthy enough.

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